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We often don't get appropriate information about our genitals, sexuality and orgasm. Without the necessary information, it is difficult to develop healthy relationships with ourselves and/or our sexual partner/s.

On the following pages I have collected information I believe we, as vulva owners, should have as sexually active human beings (in fact, I think it should be available before becoming active, and I hope that one day that will be the case). Don't hesitate to contact me on jess@iscarosa.com in case any questions arise.

To find ways to get practical, visit the section FEEL. The practical work is for women* only, but I do offer talks open to everyone, as well as sex counseling for individuals and couples. You can find all those offerings, as well as any upcoming events in the sections TALK or FEEL.

Vulvasphere – an exhibition

Vulvasphere – Woman Beyond the Surface is a participatory art exhibition and experience space that invites you to explore the power, complexity, and beauty of vulva-bodied existence. Through art, dialogue, and embodied workshops, we step beyond shame and silence into connection, curiosity, and celebration.

Vulvasphere – an exhibition

The Vulva

Actually, there is no such thing as "the vulva", as there are many different vulva styles. All beautiful, all unique and all perfect the way they are. The beautiful vulva sketches were drawn by Betty Dodson, founder of Bodysex.

The Vulva

The Clitoris

The clitoris is a woman's prime sensory sex organ and there is a lot more to it than we might know.

The Clitoris

The Pelvic Floor Muscle

Your pelvic floor muscle is vital to your orgasm – engaging it will increase the intensity and help you first gain and, as a next step, loose control.

The Pelvic Floor Muscle

The Urethral Sponge

We have all heard of the mysterious G-Spot, which in actual fact has very little to do with a spot and can be found quite easily, if you know what you are looking for.

The Urethral Sponge

Female Orgasm and Masturbation

There is much to know about female orgasms and masturbation, though the best way to learn more about it is by touching yourself.

Female Orgasm and Masturbation

Female Pleasure – a talk.

This talk is exclusively for women* and focuses on all the good stuff around the female body. 90 minutes full of information around sexuality, pleasure and, of course, the big O, with lots of room for questions in the end.

Female Pleasure – a talk.

Online Course: Sex & Pleasure – the key to wanting it (again)

Have you ever heard an inner voice telling you that there might be something missing ? Do you know that inkling feeling of wanting more?

Then this online course is for you!

Online Course: Sex & Pleasure – the key to wanting it (again)

Vulva castings

There's no one quite like you and, gosh, you are beautiful ...

Seeing beauty in our genitals and working on visibility is an essential step in freeing ourselves from sexual and gender roles, stereotypes, expectation, trauma, and shame. Making the incredible genital diversity visible brings us one step closer to freedom.

Vulva castings

Blog

Latest Blog Post · 17.05.2025

The Day I Crashed (And How Pleasure Shaped My Way Back)

My body whispers before it screams and I have learned to tune in. To course-correct before I collapse, yet I don’t always get it right. Life still throws curveballs—like hospital visits and memory ghosts and way too much noise in small rooms. But I’ve learned how to find my way home after the crash. Pleasure has taught me how to make these choices—how to listen to my body, not just when it’s purring, but when it’s pleading. How to stop before I break. And how to reset when the breaking is inevitable.

The Day I Crashed (And How Pleasure Shaped My Way Back)